We had a great party season that ended with our traditional “Undhiyu” party on the 25th January. A common questions that friends, keep asking –
Q How do you manage to host so many parties successfully?
Q Is it difficult? Time consuming?
Besides the fact that I have a supportive wife & now daughter – both who are of great help, over the years have learnt & now follow those points that ensures the success of the evening.
So, all of you who have been asking, here goes, for whatever it is worth:)
A) Make sure enough starters, some are always more hungry than others – We normally have 2 dry/cold – peanuts, chips kind & 2 hot/prepared starters.
B) As the Host, ensure they are well taken care of. Top up the drinks, starters coming enough, juices & soft drinks, everything from ice, lime, lemon, juice, soda, olives & right enough glasses. Whilst, mostly parties do end with dessert, we always ensure that there is coffee or liqueurs to end the night
C) Music – soft – This is one point where there have always been ambivalent feelings, since mostly at our place, we end up switching it off as there is enough to catch up, meet, discuss that at times, it starts intruding.
D) Invite people from different professions, that’s one way to make sure party not office – This has been the mainstay of our parties. Whilst there may the usual close group, however a couple of new people get rotated which acts as a lubricant to great conversation.
E) Make space in your house – When you invite people, you have to accept that kids would need to sit separately, watch TV etc. so space would need to be made.
F) Rules – Avoid passionate debates about Politics & Religion. If it feels getting out of hand, ease somebody out. Yeah yeah, bad taste and all that but, has to be done.
So, Go on Party!